What If It’s All Working Out? (Even When It Looks Like It’s Not)

You know those moments when everything seems to be falling apart? When the door slams shut, the opportunity fizzles, the relationship crumbles, and you’re left wondering, "What the hell is the point of all this?"

Let me throw a wild idea your way:
What if every single “no,” every rejection, misstep, loss, heartbreak, and so-called “failure” was actually the universe conspiring to get you exactly where you’re meant to be?

Not in some vague, spiritual bypassing kind of way—but in a real, tangible, life-altering way.
The kind of way that makes you look back one day and say, “Ohhhhhh. That’s why it didn’t work out. Because this—this right here—is what was meant for me all along.”

But here's the kicker. Here's the real trick:
None of that future magic can ever happen for you if you're stuck in a mindset of lack.
If you’re operating from jealousy, envy, fear, comparison, sadness, or any of those shadow emotions, you are not available for the abundance that's trying to reach you.

Let me say that louder for the people in the back:
You cannot receive the greatest, most abundant, wildly fulfilling version of your life if you’re internally fixated on everything that’s missing.

I know you’ve heard versions of this before—from neuroscientists, spiritual teachers, manifestation coaches, you name it. This isn’t a new philosophy. And believe me, I’d love to take credit for it like I just uncovered the secret to the universe in my morning coffee—but nope. I didn’t come up with it.

But here’s what I can say, with an unwavering, borderline-illogical level of certainty:
It’s true.
It works.
And it will change everything.

When you shift your internal state to certainty, when you decide—not hope, not wish, not cross your fingers—but decide that it’s all working out in your favor, even when you have zero evidence... that’s when the shift happens. That’s when things start to align.

It’s not about delusion. It’s about devotion.
Devotion to the life you know you’re meant for.
Devotion to the belief that it’s already yours, and everything that “didn’t work out” was just clearing the path.

You’ve met those people before—the ones who have this quiet (or not-so-quiet) confidence that everything will work out for them. They walk around with that magnetic energy that just pulls the right things toward them. You think, How are they so lucky?

They're not lucky. They’re certain.
That’s the difference.

And guess what? I used to judge those people too. I’d roll my eyes, thinking they were out of touch. But now? Now I am one of them.
Crazy? Maybe.
But crazy in the best possible way.
Because here's the newsflash: It always works out for those people.

So the question is—are you ready to be one of those people?

Decide.
Let go of the fear.
Drop the story of failure.
Stop mourning the things that didn’t happen and start celebrating that they didn’t—because they were never meant to.

The best things are still on their way.
Better than you could possibly imagine.

But only if you believe it.

Insanely.
Wholeheartedly.
Unapologetically.

Because that’s when life gets really good.

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